My Opening Statement Regarding the Conflict

Please review all questions before you begin.  Your answers are JOINT COMMUNICATION
and will be used to compile a list of issues for discussion during mediation.  If you wish any
portion of your answers held PRIVATE, please indicate clearly.  Attach another sheet of
paper as needed.
Please select all categories of conflict present in this situation:
Describe the overall
nature of the conflict
to be mediated, from
your perspective:
From your
perspective, list the
various issues
involved
in the
conflict: (example:
level of care Dad
requires; who will pay
for his care; should
Dad still be driving;
where should Dad
live; who will handle
Dad's money: should
his new wife alone
inherit his assets?)
What are your
underlying interests
that need to be met
for the conflict to be
resolved fairly?
What needs and
interests
do you
have
in common with
one or more of the
others involved in the
conflict?
What steps have
you taken
to attempt
to resolve the conflict
so far?
What ideas and
options
do you
suggest f
or resolving
the conflict
?
Click on this button if
you wish all or part of
this communication
held PRIVATE.


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